Secrets To Dating For Disabled

Being disabled generally means that you are on a different playing field from most. In their dating lives, many disabled people will encounter that the opposite or same sex either want to be friends or end up running away. Even for those of you who are good looking, you soon come to realise that people feel uncomfortable around you once they know about your disability. What people seem to forget is that disabled people are just the same as everyone else. They all:

• Want to be loved
• Desire attention
• Want to be part of a relationship

There are some people who are prepared to date disabled people and give them a chance for real happiness, which is something we all want.

So what can we do to make the dating game as equal for disabled people as it is for able-bodied people? Well, the answers are very simple. The following are just a few things that you may want to consider:

You Need to Accept Your Partner’s Disability

This statement couldn’t be more obvious, but there are some people who are unable to do this. If this is the case, then you should not be with them. If you are unable to accept this person (warts and all), then do not date them.

Accommodate Their Way Of Life

If you are not prepared to adapt to the way in which they live, then do not get involved with this person. Not every disabled person lives their life in the same way; different disabilities require different ways of living. Therefore, being with a disabled person may mean you having to use adapted facilities so you can be in a relationship with your partner.

Communication

Many people who are disabled will feel like they are a burden to their partner because in some cases their routine is demanding. It is these fears that you must dispel for your partner by talking to them and letting them know that you are there for them and that you love them just the same as an able-bodied person. Reassure them and let them feel and know that they are extremely important to you. Support Your Partner

Help them in times of need, but do not do everything for them. They need to feel independent just like the rest of us. They need to be able to do things on their own, but everyone needs a helping hand from time to time. Don’t ever allow your partner to feel as though they are taking advantage of you. You are in a partnership and that is how it should be.

Love, Honour And Respect

Now we get to the good bit. Everyone needs love, respect and appreciation in their daily lives, and we all need to be able to trust the person with whom we are intimate. We all know about the other stuff, but when it comes to love there is one thing that must be mutual. This is where trust comes in.

When you trust someone, then the love comes easily, especially in the bedroom. Make your partner feel sexy and complete. Make sex sensual and special. Dress up for each other and do whatever makes you both happy, because it is in the bedroom when you are both in your most vulnerable state.